Some months ago I posted about having unexpected discoveries about your ancestry. Just when you think you have reached the end of your search, something comes out of nowhere! (if you are lucky….)
My local bookseller called my attention to a newly published book titled Gypsy Boy. This is a personal account of the author’s “Life in the Secret World of the Romany Gypsies” written by Mikey Walsh. Mikey Walsh was born into a Romany Gypsy family. They lived in a secluded community, and little is known about the Gypsy way of life.
Growing up, he didn’t go to school, he seldom mixed with non-Gypsies, and the caravan was his world. Gypsies are very wary of outsiders, and if you choose to leave you can never come back. Eventually, Mikey was faced with an agonizing decision — to stay and keep secrets, or escape and find somewhere to belong.
The book attempts to show for the first time, what life is really like among the Romany Gypsies. It has become a bestseller in Great Britain, where the memoir takes place. Mikey was a ‘Traveler’, which is what the British Gypsies are called, but their roots are Romany.
I have admittedly not read very far yet into the book, but there was an entry in the second chapter that certainly got my attention. It was about superstitions:
“Gypsies are very superstitious people; black cats are seen as a good sign, as are horseshoes, and even Dalmatian dogs, as long as you can spit on both hands and rub them together before you lose sight of one. They are also certain that if a bird flies into your home, someone is going to die.”
I know that birds are omens of bad luck in many cultures but this sentence describes exactly a superstition that I was brought up with. My grandmother believed in this, and in fact, the superstition was sadly proven true when my Aunt and Uncle lost a baby just after it was born. My grandmother was sure that it was caused by the bird that flew into her house. She was wary of birds and very, very careful never to let a bird have an opportunity to enter.
Where do we learn these old world superstitions? From our family and cultural background, of course. I remember writing to a Gypsy ethnographer and telling him that I thought some of my family ancestry was Gypsy; he wanted examples of customs, language, or way of life that were found among the Gypsies. In my mind, this is one more hint that somewhere in my family ancestry, there are Gypsies. Combined with my DNA (U3b) which is found in 55% Romany Gypsies, the fact that my ancestors were circus performers out of Bohemia (the unofficial state of the Gypsy people), there are no records that I can locate (nor can a professional genealogist) for my family’s entry into the U.S., they were secretive and kept to themselves, and now reading about a superstition that I grew up with as a child — I am more than ever convinced that somewhere in my maternal bloodlines, there were Gypsies.






